Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Your fun, Others misery .....

The message is loud and simple .....

No one has the right to play in to the peacefulness, harmony of other persons life.
If you want to get drunk please do it, dont drive and make a mess in other persons life.
If you want to show off in your 400cc bike, please do it in a race track.
If you wanna get thrilled by over speeding, please make sure u hit the wall and not the innocent people on the road.
Your silly mistake can take not only the life of a person but make the whole life miserable for his family (near and dear ones)
The real punishment for these guys should be, making them attend the victim's last rituals. He will never do that again in his life time.
Some lessons are learnt from seeing others mistakes.
Just dont rash drive/drink & drive/ speed drive.

Monday, July 5, 2010

Be Sincere, not Serious !!!

(This post is for me to read whenever needed)

Speech by Chetan Bhagat at Symbiosis ...must read...


Don’t just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.

There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

"Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die. ……………….

One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may lastanother 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need toget so worked up? …………….

It's ok, bunk a few classes, scoring low in couple of papers, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work, fall in love, little fights with your spouse. We are people, not programmed devices........." :)

"Don't be serious, be sincere."!!

It will happen....

How, When, By whom?
You really cant predict, but it will happen... if it has to happen to you!

What should you do to make it happen?
Just do whatever you continue to do, do it with passion and do it honestly. Dont dwell too much on things are not going your way.
Dont feel bad that someone you have expected to help you didnt turn out, because it is gonna happen through someother. Its an oppurtunity to make a new friend, to understand about someone on whom you had a wrong perpection.

Enjoy the failure, because it gives time to think, to understand people around you. (Easily said than done)
Success just makes you jubiliant, pumps you up, makes you beleive everything around you is nice & good until you face the failure.

If it doesnt happen to you, may be it doesn't deserve you.... May be you are too good for it ....
May be something better, bigger (oppurtunity) is waiting around the corner.

Just keep doing it, you will reach the corner soon.
It will happen .....

SMILE A BIT IT NOT ONLY ENERGISES YOU BUT ALSO THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU ....